My Wife's Enemies Are Now Mine: A Surprisingly Empowering Journey

The author recounts a transformation from conflict-avoidant to confidently assertive. Before marriage, he prioritized harmony, even suppressing dislike for others. However, marriage introduced a new dynamic: his wife's enemies became his own. This led to a newfound willingness to openly express disapproval, even actively confronting those he disliked. This not only strengthened his marriage but also empowered him to be more resolute in his own opinions and actions, leading to personal growth.