Understanding the 'Quality World' in Choice Theory

This article explores the concept of the 'Quality World' within Choice Theory/Reality Therapy. Using engaging examples like the parable of the blind men and an elephant, and a classroom exercise, the author illustrates how each individual's perception of reality is unique, forming a personal 'Quality World' comprised of images fulfilling their basic needs (love/belonging, power/self-worth, freedom, fun, physical survival). These images shape behavior, and understanding and supporting another's 'Quality World' is key to building strong relationships. The article also touches upon how unmet needs can lead to negative behaviors, highlighting the importance of accessing an individual's 'Quality World' to help them make more life-sustaining choices.