Don't Argue with Toddlers (or Their Adult Equivalents)

This article argues that many apparent arguments are not genuine exchanges of ideas, but rather displays of power, attention-seeking behaviors, or playful sparring. True arguments aim for insight and a conclusion. The author suggests that a willingness to change one's own mind is crucial; if you're not changing your perspective, you're likely not engaging in a real argument. Instead of trying to win, focus on asking open-ended questions like, "What information might change your mind?" The piece concludes that deeply held beliefs tied to identity are often resistant to change through argument.