From 15 Years of Celibacy to Dating Success: A Practical Guide

2025-03-20
From 15 Years of Celibacy to Dating Success: A Practical Guide

A 34-year-old author, after 15 years of celibacy, shares his journey to dating success by treating it as a special interest. He details practical advice, emphasizing self-improvement, confidence, honesty, and vulnerability. The guide covers optimizing dating app profiles, effective communication, and navigating casual vs. serious relationships. It stresses dating as a team sport, not a battle, highlighting the power of authenticity in attracting compatible partners and ultimately finding lasting love.

Read more

The Art of Suffering: Embracing Life's Extreme Tension

2025-02-07
The Art of Suffering: Embracing Life's Extreme Tension

The author contrasts the luxurious setting of a New Year's Eve party with his unique attitude towards suffering. Instead of avoiding pain, he views it as a medium for artistic creation, examining and experiencing it with heightened sensitivity and poetic perspective, transforming it into a richer, more authentic life experience. This is a philosophy of 'love of fate' (Amor fati), rejecting mediocrity and embracing the extreme tension of life, a stark contrast to the prevalent ideas of 'self-management' and 'seeking tranquility'.

Read more
Misc suffering