ADHD and Job Loss: It's Not a Failure

2025-04-25
ADHD and Job Loss: It's Not a Failure

For those with ADHD, job loss is a possibility, and it's okay. The author, having been fired once and quitting four times, reframes job changes as learning experiences. Typical workplaces are designed for neurotypical individuals, and ADHD traits often clash with expectations, leading to misunderstandings from employers. Getting fired isn't a reflection of self-worth, but rather a compatibility issue. The author advises focusing on understanding one's needs and finding a better work fit, and encourages readers not to excessively worry about job security.

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Beyond ADHD: How Upbringing Shapes Your Cognition

2025-02-01
Beyond ADHD: How Upbringing Shapes Your Cognition

After receiving an ADHD diagnosis, the author initially attempted to 'cure' it, only to discover the real pain stemmed from an incompatible upbringing. Strict parenting and suppression of individuality led to a long-term dependence on parental approval and self-doubt. The article argues that ADHD isn't a deficit, but a cognitive variation, mistaken for a problem in incompatible environments. The author calls for reflection on the impact of upbringing, a redefinition of success, and encourages rebuilding a life aligned with one's true self.

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