Why I Don't Discuss Politics with Friends
The author explains why he avoids political discussions with friends, citing years of observation revealing a strong tribalistic tendency over rational thought. Most people cling to political tribal identities rather than independent viewpoints; developing such viewpoints requires significant intellectual effort, which most are unwilling to undertake. This is because forming well-informed political opinions demands interdisciplinary knowledge, overcoming biases, and deep empathetic understanding of opposing viewpoints—a considerable challenge. Additionally, people prioritize belonging and group identity over objective truth. The author thus avoids political discussions to prevent pointless arguments and emotional exhaustion. He ultimately moved to the Bay Area seeking a community valuing rational thought and objective truth.