Stop Calling Kin Work 'Emotional Labor': It's 'F*cking Work'
2025-02-03
The author challenges the common practice of labeling the work of maintaining family relationships, particularly that disproportionately done by women, as "emotional labor." She argues this term obscures the crucial importance of this work, which she calls "kin work." This isn't simply emotional management; it's essential labor for maintaining human social networks, ensuring survival and support. Dismissing it as "emotional labor" undervalues its significance and ignores its continued necessity in modern society. The author calls for shared responsibility in maintaining family connections, rather than viewing it as a solely female burden.