A Decade of Grief: Unbearable Loss
2025-02-14

Sixteen years ago today, the author's second daughter was born; ten years ago today, she died on her sixth birthday. The piece describes the author's reflections on this day, the day his daughter would have turned sixteen, a decade after her death. The author visits her grave and attends a final memorial service at Anshe Chesed Fairmount Temple, a place that held special meaning for her, before its closure adds another layer of sadness. The author confesses that a decade later, the pain of losing his daughter persists, and the guilt of feeling he 'failed his child in the most fundamental way' remains.
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